Just like being born or dying, any great change in life is done alone. Great change happens like the skinny center of the hour glass where one individual grain slides through at a time. That is the scary part of great change. It takes a tremendous amount of faith to fall through alone into the space you cannot see from above.

You can swirl around and around above with your friends, support systems and self help but nothing happens until you let go and slide down. Alone.

Yikes!